Micro aggressions in the workplace Part II

This is some of my friends responses, reading about my problems at work. Reading their reactions helped me see that I am normal. That its these ignorant people that have the problem.

I started to doubt myself after remote fighting with my bosses all week via email and phone call and wondered if I have the problem. If I’m just overreacting. If I’m just another crazy, paranoid black person with a chip on my shoulder. Coz I’m the minority and I dare not mention that.

All in 24 hours. When my boss told me my tone was threatening, when my bosses boss told me I misread the tone of the initial email, when I was blamed by my boss that 3 parents complained about me in the space of 20 minutes without hearing my side, when the Head Teacher emailed me some comment about not being bothered about my physical health that I had told her about coz she gave me the impression that she cared, when my boss incorrectly told her boss that I had not created any resources for my students coz she didn’t look for them, when my bosses boss insisted having an 8am meeting with me knowing I’m I’ll…I wonder who is UNPROFESSIONAL.


I can write a book–a series of books–on white microaggressions in the workplace. It’s fatiguing.
It really batters you psychologically


Sad but true and you are not the only one dealing with this scenario (as you know). The difference is you have made a choice to get out of the system. Not everyone has that confidence, inner strength or means to make the necessary change. Also, I feel that there is this kind of micro aggression and unconscious-bias wherever you go. People will always feel threatened by others whether it’s the way you speak, your privilege etc. I had it in Jamaica!! But it’s about doing something about ones situation and that would always be my advice 👍🏽


Yep, honey. We know exactly what you are talking about.


Right don’t give the bosses reason to let you go also. Leave on your own terms


It’s very frustrating and I see this a lot. Even where I work now. Not believing a black managers point over the white support staff.
You handled it very well though your response was very well executed
I was talking to a teacher friend (Nigerian lady)She is so fed up with the blatant racism in the school. A real problem and demotivating but you have to know how to deal with it and play them at their own game, and I think you handled it well 👏🏽
I normally tell them they are being aggressive to me and I feel they are confrontational before they get a chance to say it back. I hope it goes well tonight though like you said. All positive to keep them quiet 🤐
I think you have to stay true to yourself. Your good at your job and perhaps part of the reasons they are having such problems with students and results is because of reasons like this.
The good thing is that when your ready to teach in Africa they will love you there.
My friend owns a school in Abuja. She would love to have you. If you did plan to leave in Senegal. Luckily you have options


Yes, this can and does happen in the school world. For me, it has not necessarily been linked to white women but have experienced it, esp from young, white intimidated woman but supported by a black man!!


Interesting read. It’s definitely a white and class thing. My white woman boss from my past school was very judgemental till she saw that I was good at the job and professional. After that, she had my back.


This person has clearly stated that you are not doing your job properly as there seems to be a problem with your standard of work and your not carrying out the the basic register checks.
it would of been more professional that she had come and discuss the problem before jumping to conclusions, also that she would rather listen to others more than to come to you directly…it sounds as if she wants to belittle you to show her power…but always remember that the belittling words from this person is the only power they have over you, don’t let this dampen your self esteem your bigger than this trivial competition.
Love the way you responded by showing that you aware of your your surroundings and is capable of carrying out your role and your quiet confident when doing so..

I’m done with educated, white people ignorance…


Dealing with white woman ignorance in the workplace. Microaggression. Unconscious Bias.

The ignorant boss woman emails me and copies in my ignorant white woman boss.

Hi Hannah, 
I have just had an email from Mrs X as she is concerned that he is getting a mark for non-attendance to lesson but he was there, which I have confirmed with some of my key worker students who are with me in school and he was there the whole time.  
Can I ask that the register gets checked carefully, so we don’t end up having awkward conversations with parents.  
If you need any support with please let me know.  

I respond and copy in their white man boss.

Bobby, I feel it important that you are aware of this email interaction.Thanks for this.  I am very careful with registers.  Also, I have not heard a word from X since the start of term via mic or typing.  The other students attested that he has not been present, because I always check.He joined todays lesson for the first time since January in the last 5 mins which I am sure you agree is not acceptable.  Perhaps you could support him in how to be interactive and proactive in lessons so he isn’t marked as absent.Please find out both sides of the story before making assumptions.

I then email my boss her boss and the Head

Also, I was very upset about the email from head yr 8.  X and Y have seen it. We’re all under pressure but that’s unwarranted and we need to support one another as teachers.  I believe in this very strongly.
Please could this be resolved in whatever way you deem necessary as it weighs on me that adult discussions are not had first before judging situations particularly with a child who I know has complex issues. I taught him in person last year and he made his mark let’s say.
Sorry to moan but I like everything out in open.ThanksHannah 

I deal with this kinda bullshit day in and day out for what feels like millennia and guess what ? Its always white women bosses who assume shit about me. It’s so tired and boring beyond belief. Their prejudice defies logic and professionalism.

That’s why Europe is not for me. Would rather not have electricity than deal with this draining nonsense.

I also make sure I’m so on it with quality, paperwork or whatever hoop that they just have to keep me til I’m ready to exit.

The last time my white female boss treated me like an idiot and sacked me, I whistleblew and she had to endure months of investigation of unprofessionalism and bullying in the work place.

Put them in their place but look after YOU. Coz we know we’re better.

UK is proper fucked

Brexit, pandemic fuel departures

COVID-19 has battered the UK, killing more than 86,000 people nationwide, threatening millions of people’s livelihoods and plunging the country into its deepest recession for 300 years.

But a number of people who left the UK last year told Al Jazeera the pandemic was not the biggest factor in their decision to relocate.

Instead, they said, it was mainly the country’s tortuous exit from the European Union.

As much as the English are the fathers of savagery, I feel so sad for the average brit who is suffering because they stupidely put their trust in idiots like Boris.

My every emotion is present here in this work of art

All men have secrets and here is mine
So let it be known
For we have been through hell and high tide
I think I can rely on you
And yet you start to recoil
Heavy words are so lightly thrown
But still I’d leap in front of a flying bullet for you

So, what difference does it make?
So, what difference does it make?
It makes none
But now you have gone
And you must be looking very old tonight

The devil will find work for idle hands to do
I stole and I lied, and why?
Because you asked me to!
But now you make me feel so ashamed
Because I’ve only got two hands
Well, I’m still fond of you, oh-ho-oh

So, what difference does it make?
Oh, what difference does it make?
Oh, it makes none
But now you have gone
And your prejudice won’t keep you warm tonight

Oh, the devil will find work for idle hands to do
I stole, and then I lied
Just because you asked me to
But now you know the truth about me
You won’t see me anymore
Well, I’m still fond of you, oh-ho-oh

But no more apologies
No more, no more apologies
Oh, I’m too tired
I’m so sick and tired
And I’m feeling very sick and ill today
But I’m still fond of you, oh-ho-ohOh, my sacred one
OhSource: LyricFindSongwriters: Steven Morrissey / 

This song is perfection. It reaches me deeply as it presents a mirror of ourselves and our loves mingled with deep resentments. Real life